Goodbye wasn’t easy, but it was needed. | by unsent letters | Sep, 2025
how do i start?
today is 4th september and i wrote him a long message like a closure to let him know my true feelings and also for myself to stop waiting for something that’s uncertain. WE broke up on 16th august, i’m a bit too emotional so i took a little excuse to talk with him on 18th august like for 2 minutes that’s it.. ahhh! Women in love like me are the cutest..
then later He also couldn’t stay without so he messaged me on 31st august, where we chatted for around 8.34pm till 11.15pm .. We discussed a lot more things on why our relationship might not work? convincing parents is hard/nearly impossible but to reach to that we are only not compatible now cause of different love language.. he is into physical touch while i am bit more emotional and i have my own boundaries in the physical relations like before marriage we shouldn’t do anything not even kiss. but it’s fine to hug, hold hands etc..
but of course he cannot compromise for me so am i .. if we compromised then it would have been suffocated to live like that right?
so he as being 5 years older than me made a decision considering both our situations and boundaries! That we go apart now and become our best versions and if we are written to cross paths again then we may or else ..Let’s just move on and you know go with the flow.
but on 31st august he said,” he’ll come back after his first income to see if i’m available or any king has taken me away.. till then he won’t message me and if i need him in any difficult situations then i may contact him.. take care “ that’s the last message ..
when i sent the message to him today morning. i was clear that i won’t wait. i will build my own empire. i have many responsibilities to fulfill. i have so many dreams which are incomplete… i started studying seriously, i restarted my content creation journey, i restarted writing blogs, i’m researching everyday on how to become the woman i look up to. How to be my better version? i started bhagavadgita today and made a whatsapp channel to share whatever i am learning .. i still miss him of course i am a human and i loved deeply .. sometimes i am overthinking or absent-minded.
he’s also suffering exactly like me or more/less.. but He’s a medical student, he can be busy everyday and forget me. easy peasy … noe he’s just diverting his mind everyday to this and that so he cannot think of me and it hurted me when i read that cause even if i remember him everyday , i don’t regret remembering him nor i escape from it .. but it’s okay everyone has their own weakness. for me, he was my strength and for him, i was his weakness so
i think my breakup story was bit too long and complicated ,.. if you’ve gone through similar state then leave a comment below ..
some other day. i might share about my love story too so wait for it
see you next week.. till then take care and bye
